According to ‘statistics’ about 1/5th of all people in relationships can’t decide whether to stay or leave. That’s 2 people in every 10 in a relationship are not sure whether they want to stay with their partner. Now every relationship has it’s moments when things are pretty rocky, life, work, kids and unexpected events deal some […]
I was speaking to my daughter last night about the Steps To Separation Workshops we are running and she said she thought some people might be too embarrassed or ashamed to go along to a workshop either before they leave a relationship or in the early stages of separation. And I get it! I didn’t […]
Using Perspective & Other Tools to Overcome Struggle. When you are struggling you want to know its part of the big plan. Our experts share practical ways to make that easier. Watch 8pm Tues 22 Sept www.soultv.com.au
Do you want to avoid having kids who are stressed, anxious, upset and conflicted?
Would you like your kids to feel as secure, supported and happy as possible during this time of transition?
Do you want to experience less stressful days, move on and settle into your new circumstances faster?
Divorce is an incredible opportunity to powerfully demonstrate particular beliefs about the world, how things work and what is possible to your children. What is it that you would like to demonstrate to your children? Do you want children who believe that when a marriage ends it is a painful experience, ? Do you want children who know that when life doesn’t go to plan you can adapt and move on to the next wonderful thing?
Are you feeling like you are lost and unable to move forward with your life? Are you struggling with the dilemma of choosing to stay or choosing to leave? Is your marriage unfulfilling and lacking life and lustre.
When couples separate, there are financial issues which need to be discussed and resolved. Usually issues regarding payment of expenses, income and property. Some are urgent and need immediate attention and others are longer term decisions about how to separate the financial arrangements on a permanent and final basis. Making these decisions can be emotionally draining and complex.
This is the first in a series of posts by K.M Harris who is an aspiring Writer from New Zealand with connections to the Ngapuhi tribe, and tribes in the Bay of Plenty and East Coast regions. ‘Real experiences from real people’ is the kind of writing she enjoys producing and ‘reality reads’ is what […]
My parents separated when I was 19, Dad moved on with his new lady, I saw him twice over the next 20 years. He passed away unexpectedly and when we asked his ‘wife’ if we could have his photos she declined. I have two photos of my dad, no family photos including photos of my […]
If you are in the early phases of separation there will be some people you want to keep close by your side and there will be others that will no longer be a part of your life. Everyone will have an opinion on what you should do, what they really thought of your partner and […]
With the divorce rate rising at a rapid rate, families and relationships struggling and so many people hurting and finding it so difficult to get over what has happened and move on with their lives it always triggers these questions in my mind. Where are we going wrong in our relationships? What preparations need to […]