The holiday period is over, kids back in school and most of us settling into our usual routines. I am back at work after a wonderful break in Noosa spending time with close friends and reconnecting with the things I loved to do when I live there a few years ago. Early morning walks into Noosa […]
This is the first in a series of posts by K.M Harris who is an aspiring Writer from New Zealand with connections to the Ngapuhi tribe, and tribes in the Bay of Plenty and East Coast regions. ‘Real experiences from real people’ is the kind of writing she enjoys producing and ‘reality reads’ is what […]
If you are in the early phases of separation there will be some people you want to keep close by your side and there will be others that will no longer be a part of your life. Everyone will have an opinion on what you should do, what they really thought of your partner and […]
Which brings me to ‘self-love’ or lack thereof.
Many people give too much and love too much and then wonder why they are left feeling unappreciated, unloved and dissatisfied with life.
If you identify as someone who gives too much and you are frustrated that your goals and dreams are sitting out in some far distant future this is the perfect time to write your personal mission statement and enforce boundaries around how you use your time and your energy.
Women come to me for help. The end of a relationship is a highly emotive time and there is not a great deal of difference in the emotional and physical responses from the stay at home mum with children, the women who have been married for 20+ years and professional women in those first 3 to 6 months. Divorce wipes people out, they can’t think straight, and many lose every inch of their self worth and confidence. Their lives have been turned upside down and they struggle to come to terms with the reality of a situation they never signed up for.
There is no way I could address all the different situations and circumstances that women come from and through because of the end of a relationship. Relationships do not fall into a common category simply because no two people involved in a relationship have the same personalities, beliefs, values or lifestyle choices as any other couple on the planet.
When two people are involved in conflict, one or both parties driven by a desire for revenge and control with the sole intend being to destroy their ex partners life, their careers and/or their relationship with their children.
It’s a new year, so let’s think about a new you! Are you finding it really hard to even get dressed in the mornings you feel so bad about what’s going on around you. I get that! We all have had days just like that, and even days when we just thought “What the hell, […]