In most relationships, whether they be with a spouse, family and friends or work colleagues we compromise ourselves in some way, to either keep the peace, avoid confrontation or to be accepted, liked and even loved.
Are you feeling like you are lost and unable to move forward with your life? Are you struggling with the dilemma of choosing to stay or choosing to leave? Is your marriage unfulfilling and lacking life and lustre.
If you are in the early phases of separation there will be some people you want to keep close by your side and there will be others that will no longer be a part of your life. Everyone will have an opinion on what you should do, what they really thought of your partner and […]
Guest Post By Rosalind Sedacca, CCT We all know divorce is tough on families. Everyone is affected, especially the children. In most cases, the older the children, the more complex the reaction and more difficult the adaptation. There are many reasons why. Older children have a longer history in the former family unit, regardless of […]
What does feeling invisible look like and in what situations might we find ourselves feeling invisible?
From a physical perspective there are both men and women who exude that air of natural confidence and charisma and is what instinctively draws people to them. Even these people will have times when they need to withdraw from the world to recharge, maybe this is what you could also refer to as needing to feel invisible, the difference here though is that for them it’s a considered choice which is very different from those people who feel that it something out of their control.
Most separating parents are very concerned about how divorce affects their kids whoever far too many underestimate the real impact of divorce on children, teenagers and adult children as well. In Australia nearly half of divorces involve children under the age of 18 years of age and these are the ones who suffer the most […]
If you have just had one of those life-changing shitballs come completely out of the blue and totally rock your world and how you see yourself then I have a few things to share with you! One minute everything seems great with your relationship, sharing intimate moments, making plans for the future, enjoying being together, […]
Am I way off the mark thinking that we all have our own little secrets? I know I’ve got a few that I have never shared with anyone and nor do I ever intend to. Doesn’t everyone have some little secret that they have either never shared with anyone or only ever shared with a […]
I had the pleasure of meeting Lauren on the weekend – this is her story! I attend a prestigious private girls school, and my brothers attend the all boys’ school. We live in an impressive private, gated estate, in a mansion, complete with housekeepers, dog groomers, an ironing lady, gardeners, window cleaner and as many […]
The dictionary describes grief as sadness, anguish, heartache, regret, remorse, sorrow and suffering. Grief is everyone single one of these words and I think it needs all of these words to illustrate the extend of what it is to experience. Grief is one of the key emotions that women going through divorce and loss experience […]