Tag Archives: stress

DAMNED IF YOU DO AND DAMNED IF YOU DON’T

Are you feeling like you are lost and unable to move forward with your life? Are you struggling with the dilemma of choosing to stay or choosing to leave? Is your marriage unfulfilling and lacking life and lustre.

HOW MEN AND WOMEN MISUNDERSTAND SEX

Here’s the scenario! It’s early morning, the guy rolls over, kisses his partner. She gets the message and starts to cuddle into him. Next thing he is on top of her and 3-5 minutes later it’s all over. As he gets up and starts walking out of the bedroom she says, ‘Where are you going?” […]

STUCK IN A MONEY RUT?

Let’s talk about money! It’s up there with topics like politics, religion and sex when it comes to having discussions about it with a partner, a colleague or a friend or your ‘friendly’ bank manager. Far too many women really struggle financially as an outcome of separation and divorce. And yes, I know a lot […]

Lauren’s Story of Divorce and Lost Childhood

I had the pleasure of meeting Lauren on the weekend – this is her story! I attend a prestigious private girls school, and my brothers attend the all boys’ school. We live in an impressive private, gated estate, in a mansion, complete with housekeepers, dog groomers, an ironing lady, gardeners, window cleaner and as many […]

COPING WITH LOSS

The dictionary describes grief as sadness, anguish, heartache, regret, remorse, sorrow and suffering. Grief is everyone single one of these words and I think it needs all of these words to illustrate the extend of what it is to experience. Grief is one of the key emotions that women going through divorce and loss experience […]

FIRST THINGS FIRST!

A break up can become a real crisis for most people, the pain is very intense and when I think about myself at that time I knew I was ‘out of control.’ I have heard it described as a death and I think that can be how it feels for many of us, whether you […]