Tag Archives: Thoughts

DAMNED IF YOU DO AND DAMNED IF YOU DON’T

Are you feeling like you are lost and unable to move forward with your life? Are you struggling with the dilemma of choosing to stay or choosing to leave? Is your marriage unfulfilling and lacking life and lustre.

CHASING YOUR DREAMS OR RUNNING FROM DEMONS?

This is the first in a series of posts by K.M Harris who is an aspiring Writer from New Zealand with connections to the Ngapuhi tribe, and tribes in the Bay of Plenty and East Coast regions. ‘Real experiences from real people’ is the kind of writing she enjoys producing and ‘reality reads’ is what […]

GIRLFRIENDS AND MISGUIDED ADVICE

If you are in the early phases of separation there will be some people you want to keep close by your side and there will be others that will no longer be a part of your life. Everyone will have an opinion on what you should do, what they really thought of your partner and […]

DIVORCE IS TOUGH – EVEN TOUGHER ON TEENS!

Guest Post By Rosalind Sedacca, CCT We all know divorce is tough on families. Everyone is affected, especially the children. In most cases, the older the children, the more complex the reaction and more difficult the adaptation. There are many reasons why. Older children have a longer history in the former family unit, regardless of […]

HOW TO STOP FEELING INVISIBLE

What does feeling invisible look like and in what situations might we find ourselves feeling invisible?

From a physical perspective there are both men and women who exude that air of natural confidence and charisma and is what instinctively draws people to them. Even these people will have times when they need to withdraw from the world to recharge, maybe this is what you could also refer to as needing to feel invisible, the difference here though is that for them it’s a considered choice which is very different from those people who feel that it something out of their control.

COPING WITH LOSS

The dictionary describes grief as sadness, anguish, heartache, regret, remorse, sorrow and suffering. Grief is everyone single one of these words and I think it needs all of these words to illustrate the extend of what it is to experience. Grief is one of the key emotions that women going through divorce and loss experience […]

IS YOUR SENSE OF SELF-WORTH INTACT?

Self-worth! The reason I wanted to address this topic is because I see so many women bashing themselves up about not being enough …… and ‘enough’ is another whole discussion topic. As I began to write this blog it caused me to stop and really think about what this word means to me. This of […]

SEX WITH THE EX!

Sex with the ex? Yes or No? Have you thought about it? Have you done it? If so, how did you feel afterwards? This is an example of a scenario I see played out from time to time. This is not a one sided situation, sometimes it is the woman who makes the first move. […]

WHAT’S GOING ON INSIDE YOUR HEAD?

What’s Going on Inside Your Head? My guess is that you are already aware that our minds are really, really active, you know that, ‘monkey chatter’ that is constantly going on and on inside our heads. It has been recorded that we have between 40-60 thousand thoughts a day! 95% are the same from day […]

THOUGHTS & FEELINGS

ME & MICHAEL NEILL TALKING ABOUT THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS The Secret of Emotional Wellbeing. Every emotion you experience is a direct response to a thought, not to the world around you. Many people really struggle with that statement. What came up for you when you read it? The more clearly you see that your emotions […]